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Your favorite daughter-in-law posted a condolence
Friday, February 1, 2013
Jim....I can't believe 7 years has come and gone already. You are still missed so much. Samantha is in high school and becoming a beautiful young lady. You would be so proud of her. Austin is in middle school and is full of piss and vinegar. He keeps me on my toes, but he is a very handsome and sweet boy. I know you are watching over them with Mum and cheering them on in everything they do. We love you and miss you very much!!!!
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Your favorite daughter-in-law posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 1, 2012
Jim...6 years...It's unbelievable. We miss you so much. The kids are going up so fast. Austin is looking like you more and more. I wish you were here so you could be involved in their activities. I know we have two angels in heaven that are watching over us. Continue to help me watch over Sami and Austin. Love you!!!
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Your favorite daughter-in-law posted a condolence
Friday, March 4, 2011
Happy Birthday!!! We love you and miss you so much!! It is hard not having you around. You would be so proud of Sami and AJ. Thank you for watching over us.
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Your favorite daughter-in-law posted a condolence
Thursday, January 27, 2011
As the days get closer to the 1st, it is so hard to imagine that it will be 5 years. You are missed so much. I wish you were around to see Sami and AJ. They are getting so big and they make me so proud. This was always the time of year you came to visit and you would be able to be at a game and see them play. Although, I guess you get to see all their games and cheer them on. I just wish it was with us. This last year has been so hard, but everytime I see the eagles I know you are watching over us. I miss you!!!
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Your Favorite Daughter-in-law posted a condolence
Wednesday, November 10, 2010
We all miss you so much. It's hard to believe it's been almost 5 years. These have been rough years without you here. I wish I knew some way to bring you back. The kids and I love you so much. Happy Birthday!!! Semper Fi!! PS Say hi to Mum for me. :)
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Your favorite Daughter-in-law posted a condolence
Sunday, January 31, 2010
I can't believe you've been gone 4 years. We miss you so much. You always knew what to say and do to make things right. No matter what you will always be my favorite father-in-law. I love you!!!
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James D. Varner posted a condolence
Thursday, April 2, 2009
Hello, my name is James D. Varner. I had the privelige of working with James E. Varner when he was employed with the TSA. I still remember the day I met him and saw his badge with my name. lol. Unfortunately I did not know him long enough, but knew him well enough to remember him. Sorry for your loss, and god bless. I was unaware of his death or I would have responded earlier. jamesvarner@jdworld.net
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Larry & Bea Churchill posted a condolence
Wednesday, May 9, 2007
Kendra & family
Although we only knew Jim for a short time, we became friends very quickly. It was such a shock to us to hear of his passing. when we attended his memorial, and said we would get down to see you, hopefully this year.
So very sorry we haven't been able to. We think of you often and keep you in our prayers.
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Your favorite daughter-in-law posted a condolence
Thursday, February 1, 2007
It's been a hard day. We all miss you so much. It's just not the same without you here. We love you!!
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Your Son posted a condolence
Friday, November 10, 2006
Happy Birthday Marine !!! Just wasn't the without our phone call today
I went up to the spot on the mountain you liked today and talked to you for awhile. I miss you so much. Love you SEMPRE FI
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Gerry posted a condolence
Saturday, May 6, 2006
Just wanted to let you know that I think about you often. You are always in my thoughts and prayers. My heart aches for the sadness you must be feeling. There will be a light at the end of the tunnel. Know that I am always here for you.
Gerry
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family posted a condolence
Saturday, March 18, 2006
Your birthday has passed by but not forgotten, we still ask "why" everyday. We love and miss you so very much.
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LuAnn Johnson posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 28, 2006
Dear Kendra and family, Like all the others in this guest book, I was shocked and saddened to hear about Jim's passing. Jim and I were high school buddies (and cross-town rivals from Tumwater and Timberline respectively) and coworkers in the kitchen at St. Peter's for our junior and senior years. Jim was an imp and when I think of him, I always think of that smile! His expression made you think that someone had just told him a fabulous, slightly off color joke or he was plotting another of his endless practical jokes. We always had a lot of fun and side-splitting laughter, which made the 5AM shift just a little easier to bear. From reading these entries, it sounds like Jim made so much of his life both professionally and personally. My thoughts and prayers are with you and all your loved ones.
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Meredith Benningfield posted a condolence
Monday, February 27, 2006
Janelle, my heart goes out to you and the rest of your family. I am very sorry to hear of this tragedy.
Please know you are in my thoughts and prayers.
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Jim Greene posted a condolence
Saturday, February 18, 2006
I've read through the written tributes paid to Jim on this web site, and I listened to those who spoke at his memorial service, and I'm left with the same painful questions everyone else asks...Why? Where do I now go without my friend? How do I express my remorse?
The state of shock that I'm in won't leave anytime soon. Im sure it's nowhere near what Kendra and the rest of the Varner family is feeling, but it is an all-consuming shock nonetheless. I Just can't believe my friend is gone.
Until his memorial service, I thought I was one of the lucky few that could call Jim a best friend, but I was wrong. I had no idea just how many other people also considered Jim their best friend. It comes as no great surprise to me now that I think about it, but I hadn't given it much thought until attending the service. What a tribute it is to him and the way he lived his life to be held so closely by so many people. I hope Kendra and the rest of Jim's family take some comfort in knowing he had so many best friends.
Geri and I will miss him forever, and we will always cherish his friendship.
I just can't believe our friend is gone...
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Mike, Dee, Hayley & Morgan Erickson posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 15, 2006
Kendra & Janelle - As you know, Jim was Mike's sgt. in Hoquiam and we fondly remember our times spent together with you.... especially that surprise baby shower you threw for us almost 15 years ago. We'll cherish the pictures of that evening always. We can't even begin to imagine how difficult this time is for you. Please know that our prayers are with you and your family.
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Michael, Colleen, Richard & Carrie Aldridge posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 14, 2006
I met my friend Jim in 1980 when we attended the State Patrol Academy; from that day forward, my life was forever changed for the better. Jim, in his inspirational and caring way, offered my family and me, an unconditional friendship that continues to this day, and will continue until I meet my friend again.
Kendra, you were a part of what made Jim the caring person he was; for without your support, he could not have helped the multitude of people he helped. Thank you!
In each of our lives, we have regrets; my regret where Jim is concerned, is that I did not communicate with him more often. I will not have that regret where his family is concerned! I promise to remain in touch with you.
Mike Aldridge awm9317@comcast.net
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Terry McMaster posted a condolence
Monday, February 13, 2006
I was the L&I investigations program manager when Jim first came to L&I. I was impressed with his professional demeanor and genuine people person attitude. He will be missed by many folks. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and for him.
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Donna Powell posted a condolence
Monday, February 13, 2006
Dear Kendra and Janelle,
I just heard last night by e-mail from Patty Matthews that Jim was gone. I'm stunned. Jim was probably the nicest person I have ever known. I am so glad that I did get to see him some during the past years and get to know you two. Jim had the nicest laugh and he never made fun of me in grade school. Red hair and freckles you know. Why do all the nice people have to leave us so young. I'm thinking of you and praying for you both.
Love Donna
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Jason T. Aidan and Ava Varner posted a condolence
Monday, February 13, 2006
We want to send our best wishes to you. We are devistated by our tragic loss, while celebrateing his beautiful life. He was a Giant. We love you guys and pray for you. I hope you know that if there is anything that you need we will be here for you. Take Care and God Bless.
Jason, Aidan and Ava
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Joan Jacobs (Class of 1974) posted a condolence
Monday, February 13, 2006
I am thankful that we have the photos that Jim took at our 20th High School Reunion. We got to view those same photos on disc at the 30th High School Reunion. An awesome job he did too, priceless now. My prayers are with you.
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Patty Matthews (Dorian) posted a condolence
Sunday, February 12, 2006
Though it's been many, many, years since I've seen Jim, I remember him well. We attended the old Lacey School together and for while he was my math parter in Mrs. Stambaugh's 4th grade class. Jim was nice to everyone, had a great sense of humor, and occassionally we would get into trouble for giggling over something Jim had said. Some of the people you cross paths with in life, you just never forget. Jim was one on those people. I was saddened to learn of his death and my heartfelt condolences go out to Jim's family. May God bless you during this difficult time.
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Susan Chamberland posted a condolence
Sunday, February 12, 2006
Dear Kendra and Janelle,
It was such a shock hearing about Jim's passing from my son Nathan today. I am so very sorry for you and the kids. I still remember his "courting" of you and how very proud he was to win you. Your wedding was so beautiful and I enjoyed it (although I was pretty uncomfortable being pregnant with Meredith) so much. After Randy and I divorced I didn't get to keep up with you like I would have liked - but any time we ran into each other - you were both so warm and kind. You were the best nurse there when I was in the hospital after giving birth to Alayna.
To lose a husband and father is difficult any time - but to lose him so suddenly has to be your worst nightmare. My heart aches for you and Janelle. Please give me a call anytime you would like to talk. We are in the phone book. My prayers are with you all.
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Darla (Ritter) Windham (class of 1974) posted a condolence
Sunday, February 12, 2006
Kendra and the Varner family. Words cannot express how deeply sorry I am for the family and the many friends Jim had. My heart goes out to all of you. I knew Jim well in high school. He was an easy going guy with a wonderful personality, great sense of humor and the warm smile everyone talks of. He was a perfect gentleman. I was honored to be his friend. I haven't seen Jim in many years now, but I remember him like it was yesterday. I hope you find comfort in your memories, and companionship and strength in knowing so many share your deep loss.
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BARB THOMPSON posted a condolence
Saturday, February 11, 2006
My daughter, Ronda Thompson Liburdi Reynolds was a Washington State Trooper and worked with James in 1994 - 1995 in the WSP. Ronda had the deepest respect for him and enjoyed working with him. She often talked of his humor, dedication, honesty, and determination to do the right thing, he too believing one person could make a difference. My heart goes out to his family during this horrible time of uncertainty. I pray answers will be found and soon. To Kendra: When you are able, please contact me. My daughter died under mysterious circumstances in Lewis County in 1998. Barb Thompson at barbswash@aol.com
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C.J. Chastain posted a condolence
Friday, February 10, 2006
From the first time I met Jim (some 20 + years ago) until his untimely death, I have always liked and respected Jim. He was a very good man, and an inspiration of how everybody should treat each other. I always considered Jim a friend, though by no means close, and I wish I had taken the time to know him better (without a doubt, it has been my loss). I’m very glad I got the opportunity here a few months ago to play some cards with Jim, and get up to date on what was new in our lives. Like everybody else, I have a number of good memories of Jim, and he was one of the best “Troops” I ever rode with. I will forever remember his great – witty – sense of humor, quick smile, and “What’s Shakin?” greeting every time I saw him. Without a doubt, he has gained admission above, and God has big plans for him. Kendra and the family, may God Bless you and help you through these difficult times.
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Wayne Black posted a condolence
Thursday, February 9, 2006
Kendra, Janelle, Jason & Kenny,
In reality, I do not even know where to begin. The loss of Jim is something that I will probably never recover from. Jim was my best friend and I loved him so much.
Twenty-nine years of friendship and memories is what will keep Jim's spirit in my heart. From the first day I met Jim at St. Pete's, I knew that he was a very special guy. I thank God that I was allowed to be a part of his and your life. Jim's greatest attributes were his smile, laughter, quick wit and most of all his unconditional love.
I know that Jim was a loving husband, a wonderful father, a proud grandfather and a friend to all. He was deeply loved and will be missed by all.
Kendra knowing the two of you all these years and the bond that you shared, I cannot not even comprehend your loss or grief. May God Bless and comfort you.
If there is anything that I may do for you or Janelle please let me know.
Love,
Wayne
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Penny and Glen Tyrrell posted a condolence
Thursday, February 9, 2006
Kendra, Janelle, Jason and Kenny,
We were so sorry to hear of Jim's death. So many of us became friends during the State Patrol Academy months and during those first years, unfortunately we lost touch over the years.
We have such fond memories of those early years with our young families.
I hope that your memories and the love and support of families and friends help you during this awful time. Jim touched so many. Please know that there are lots of people out in the world who mourn his passing with you.
The world got darker with his passing but the heavens are much, much brighter.
Love Penny and Glen
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Dee (Jane) Allred posted a condolence
Thursday, February 9, 2006
I can only say that the day I heard of Jim's passing was monumental in saddness. He had always been a stand up guy. I had not seen him in years and yet when I saw him months ago it was like we just talked to each other the other day. I asked about his family and he was beaming of being a grandfather. I feel like I lost a brother. My deepest sympathies to his family. This a was someone who touched all of our lives.
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Robin Boomer posted a condolence
Thursday, February 9, 2006
It was such a shock to learn of Jim's untimely passing.
I will always remember his easy smile and warmth. I send you my deepest sympathies from across the country with wishes that you will find some peace in this trying time.
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An onry Brat posted a condolence
Thursday, February 9, 2006
Jimmy, I will forever miss your smile and your caring nature. From the time you saved me from the family camping trip to the big hug you gave me only a few days before you left us. You will always be in my heart, my prayers, and my thoughts. I still can't believe you're gone. Just be sure to look over Kendra, Janelle and dad. I know you will anyway. I love you and miss you.
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Gary Wells posted a condolence
Thursday, February 9, 2006
Although I did not know Jim, his brother John and I went to school together. John, I am sorry about the loss of your brother. I know the feeling as I to lost a brother in 1976. The best to you and your family and to all of Jim's family.
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Pat Warner Blowers posted a condolence
Thursday, February 9, 2006
Kendra I am so sorry of the loss of your husband. I remember meeting him early on in my employment at the hospital I just happened to be reading the paper on line and ran across the obit.
He was too young. As I am sitting here writing you today was the private service.
Take care and love to you and your family.
Pat Warner Blowers/former Communications Supervisor @ PSPH.
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Bobbi (Newman) Quentin posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
I was so sorry to read in the paper this morning that Jim had passed away. I graduated with Jim from Tumwater High School. He was always a happy, friendly, fun-loving guy. I remember him well. His picture could be from high school, he hasn't changed much over the years.
I want to express my sympathy to his family. He sounds like he was a wonderful man who loved his family very much. I am sure he will be missed. I hope and pray that great memories of your time with him will be in your thoughts.
Bobbi
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Dwight & Judy Whipple posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
We send our sympathy to Jim's family, especially to Kendra. And we know that you will be strengthened by your friends and family during these days and in the days ahead. Our love to you all~
~Dwight & Judy
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Classy Chassis Autobody And Paint posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
Everyone from Classy Chassis is deeply saddened by Jim' passing. We all appreciated his love of Classic cars and especially his 62 Impala. He will be missed.
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Patti (Boere) Deane posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
I am deeply saddened to learn of Jim's passing this morning from a fellow classmate. I graduated with Jim in the Class of '74 from Tumwater High School. Jim always had a smile that you could tell was genuine, coming from his kind and caring heart. He was always a pleasure to be around! I know he must have been a wonderful husband, father and friend. He was a great guy!!! As a former classmate of Jim's, I am deeply saddened he is no longer with us. I will miss him, I feel it was a privilege to know him, and I will always remember him with respect. My deepest condolences to his family, friends and co-workers.
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Teresa L. Shattuck (class of 1974) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
Talk smiles--Jim had one that could put any young high school student at ease. That's what I remember most. He had a comforting way about him and great mannerisms too. He was an awesome person. I'm hurt to hear of his passing. These times are so, so difficult for all those concerned. My heart goes out to all his loved ones, friends, and co-workers. Jim is in my thoughts. Sincerely, Teresa.
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Nancy Friend posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
I am so sorry. I can't imagine the difficulty and saddness of losing Jim...Many are praying for you and your family. We will continue to pray long after these next days. My deepest sympathy to all of you,especially you Kendra..Be strong and courageous,God is with you. All my love,Nancy
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Pam Butler posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
My condolences go out to Jim's family and friends. I was so sad to hear of his passing. Most of you don't know me but Jim used to come out to the East Olympia Post Office to mail things and he and I used to chat quite a bit. He was such a nice person and easy to talk to; it is hard to believe that he is gone. He will forever be in my thoughts and prayers.
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Mike Easley (Class of 74) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
Jim was a great friend, a best friend, he was there for me after my accident in 2000, I will miss him, we had fun times, camping and boating in Jr high. I will always remember the good times.
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Donna, Shaf and Alicia posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
Kendra and Janelle, you already know how shocked and sadden we are to have Jim gone. I still can't believe it. Jim was a great guy, dad and husband. He also had a wonderful sense of humor which showed every time I called or came over and was greeted with "Here comes trouble"! I hope he never discovered how many times my van destroyed his beautifully kept lawn. We will miss him a lot and are very glad to have had known him. You both are constantly in our prayers. We pray peace will come to you both soon. Our deepest condolences.
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Michael Newby posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
Dear Kendra & Janelle,
This sad news of Jim's passing has ripped my heart out of my chest today. Please know that my thoughts and my prayers are with you. I loved Jim as a brother and wish we hadn't missed as many opportunities to get together as we have. Please do not hesitate to let me know if there is ANYTHING I can do for you guys. I will most certainly try to make the service. If not, I hope you don't mind me stopping by sometime soon to see you. All my love, Michael p.s. I met Jim in Jr. High during lunch. I will never forget it because he always reminded me and Tim McAferty that we were the two friendliest guys in the school because we asked him to join us for lunch. After that, we became instant friends that has lasted til this day. I loved it when he pulled me over in his State Patrol car and scared the heck out of me!!!!! That smile is unforgettable and will be in my memory forever. Thanks, Jim, for being my friend! I will miss you.
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Sharon Genson posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
I was very blessed to have known Jim, I will always be grateful for the love he always shared with my daughter Kathy, my grandchildren, Tori & Jochelle who loved him so. You are very special to me Kendra and I will always be here for you and Janelle just as you have been there for all of us. Thank you Jim for being the special Grandpa who impacted the lives of my family, we will miss you always.
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Craig Lawrence posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
Janelle and Kendra, I wrote a little remembrance. A little history of our families and some thoughts. You will always have our love and our support. Our heart felt sympathy. Love, Craig.
Jim and I met through our children. Our kids were involved in children's theater together. That is how my son Nathan met Janelle. Janelle and Nathan must have been in grade school when Nathan joined the theater company that Janelle and my daughter Jess belonged to.
The summer Nathan was 16 he got up the nerve to ask Janelle out for a date, they dated for the next year and a half during their sophomore and junior years. They attended separate high schools, so to see Janelle; Nathan spent a lot of time at the Varner's. A lot of time.
Our families began doing things together. We shared dinners and activities at each other's houses, went to football games and of course attended the kids' plays together. Our family became quite fond of the Varner family. Both families are family oriented people and we enjoyed being in their company. We became friends.
When the kids quit dating, we continued to be friends. When Jim began work for the state, our offices were in the same building complex in Tumwater. We would occasionally get together on breaks and eat lunch together. Jim and I continued to exchange emails when he relocated to another office.
I admired Jim. I admired his officer of the law confidence and his easy nature. I admired his smile... especially when he wore it in his 1962 red convertible. I envied his hair. I felt welcome by his smile.
I learned things from Jim about vintage cars and how he approached his job as an investigator. I learned to share my son's time with this man – and feel good about that. I learned that no matter what the setting, you could send your daughter a pager message saying, "I love you". I know I will miss him.
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Debi Vanderhoof (class of 1974) posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 8, 2006
I attended Tumwater High School with Jim. I also work at ESD with Mike. Jim was a great person and I am so sorry to hear of his passing. My thoughts are with you and your family at this difficult time. I will always remember Jim.
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Claudia Self posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 7, 2006
Dear Family of Jim,
I was stunned and saddened to hear of Jim’s death. I first met Jim when he walked into the Prosecutor’s office to introduce himself as the new Sergeant of the Hoquiam Detachment…… due to his quick wit and sense of humor we became fast friends. Having children the same ages we shared stories of child rearing with one another and he enjoyed making me laugh with some of his tales of his days in the Marine Corps. Jim was a devoted family man and when he spoke of his life away from the patrol, he beamed with pride. He was also very dedicated to running a tight ship at the detachment and stood strong against some adversity there. He garnered my deep respect for his determination and resolve. Genuine and kind are two words I would use to describe the Jim that I knew and your family was very blessed to have him in your lives. May you find strength in your faith, comfort in God's love, and peace in knowing he touched the lives of many and was an inspiration to us. Unfortunately, I lost touch with Jim and Kendra in recent years. I have truly missed the Christmas poems with updates of the family; and in fact was determined to contact them soon to compare Grandparent stories. I will forever regret that I waited too long. My heart and prayers go out to you for your loss of such a wonderful man.
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Anne Moss posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 7, 2006
Kendra and family, I was stunned to hear about Jim's death, as you know, he was very special to me. I know he had a great sense of humor...I was sure he would make you a good husband, I also, know that he was a good father...and a very warm and loving person...I am very glad I knew him...My love you and the family..God keep you and comfort you always!
Love Anne
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Jerry and Carol Tucker posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 7, 2006
We were stunned to hear today of Jim's passing. Our deepest sympathys to all of Jim's family.
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Robert Moss posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 7, 2006
I first met Jim when we worked together at St. Peter Hospital in the security department. I liked him from the first time I met him, he always had this mischievious grin and always acted like he knew something funny and didn't want to share it. He was one of the nice people in this world. I was truly saddened by his death and will miss him very much. Good bye Jim, may God bless you and keep you always. Your friend Bob Moss
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Preston Beegle posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 7, 2006
Jim and I go way back to when he transferred down to Olympia from Seattle and joined Detachment Six aka the "A" Team. This title was given to us by our leader the "ellensburg smoothie" . Jim was a perfect fit. He worked hard and was always there in a flash to back up his fellow crew members and jump into the middle of it. I will always remember Jim for his smile that would easily put you at ease, his courage , his gentleness and most of all I will miss his brotherly love and the hugs that we shared when greeting one another through the years. Jim and I both know that we will meet again at our Heavenly Fathers table.
God Bless You My Brother in Christ.
Rest peacefully "Eight................................ninety.......Five
I will miss you................
"PB"
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