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CW2 Steele posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Lacey, You will be sadly missed! You were a steadfast warrior and a loyal "Red Devil". Until we are manifested together again, Airborne!
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Laura Morse posted a condolence
Monday, February 8, 2010
I first sailed with Lacey around 1996 on the old McArthur. I have great
memories of him as a shipmate and one of my favorite stories was from one of our inports. The ship was in Honolulu docked downtown and steps away from a Hooters. I recall Lacey made a bet with Steve Pierce that Hooter's served Don Perignon Champagne, (which Steve refused to believe they had) on the line- a days Harley rental. Who won the bet? Lacey of course, (Steve really lost out because he paid for the champagne too!) and I recall with a smile sitting at the Hooters bar sipping Don Perignon and eating chicken wings with Lacey. The next day I was treated to my first ride on a Harley with him, and always think of him when I pass a Harley shop wherever I am.
I am saddened I wont get the chance to see his smiling face again. My
deepest sympathies go out to his families and friends both on land and at
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Miguel A. Boria 1LT posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 3, 2010
I had the Honor and Previledge to serve with Lacey in Panama (1/508th Abn) during just cause. I remember him vividly and my impression of him was and it will always be of a GREAT MAN... My heart goes out to the family, and all of us who got the opportunity to serve with this great man... "Feet & Knees together Lacey" Airborne!!!
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J.H.Saunders posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 2, 2010
Lacey, A Hui Hou. No Kau A Kau, Malama Pono. Keone
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susan posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 27, 2010
Lacey, you were the best blind date I ever had. Though it was a long time ago I will always remember that first date and how we hit it off immediately, sharing great conversation and lots of humor and wit. I will always remember your light blue VW bug and you and I and your golden retriever "Cyrano" cruising around town. And also how you loved your daughter Stephanie so very much. I am so glad that our paths crossed and we spent part of our lives together. I will never ever forget you and what we shared. And I am proud of you for what you went on to become. I am very impressed with the effect you had on so many lives according to the numerous prior condolences on this website. Until we meet again. God bless
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Mike Crumley Electronics Tech NOAA SHip McArthur posted a condolence
Monday, January 25, 2010
Lacey:
Our time together on the Mac was some of the best I've ever had. You were the best "partner in Crime" I had. You are and always will be a best freind, and a true Brother. Fair Winds, Following Seas, and lots of Bugs in your teeth Buddy.
Love Always
Crumley
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Yin posted a condolence
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Lacey, it seems like just yesterday that we started sailing together on the Mac in 1999. I will miss our 330 am mornings, you drinking coffee while I checked email before a can run. We'll all miss hearing your distinctive voice on the radio during XBT's, "We're doing science" or being able to ask for your help when the SCS feed goes out on the flying bridge. Lacey was a real bridge between the crew and the science party. Thanks for allowing us to shrink countless numbers of cups on the CTD, putting out recycling bins for bottles and cans, running the ship's store for years, making 'best of CD's for the cruises and keeping us all smiling and laughing at your antics.
Lacey, I know somewhere out there, you are holding a jack and 3 fives, and the right 5 comes up in the cut.
Condolences to all of Lacey's family and friends. He will be truly missed.
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Erin LaBrecque posted a condolence
Sunday, January 24, 2010
I sailed with Lacey on the MacArthur and MacArthur II and every cruise I did with him was an adventure in science and laughter. Lacey was such a special person to me because he taught me how to put life in perspective. Whether he was taking a wonderful picture or reminding me not to be an uptight scientist, Lacey always had a smile on his face, a cup of coffee in his hand, and some wonderful words of wisdom. Although I was not in contact with him recently, he has been in my thoughts. When I am a situation which is not easy to figure out, I often think, what would Lacey do? Then I laugh and get things done. Lacey, I will miss you. I am honored to call Lacey my friend.
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Nicole posted a condolence
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Lacey, you were a very important person in my life. You always made me laugh, you were always kind and loyal, and you brightened many days for me. Though I have not been in touch with Lacey with any regularity over the last several years, whenever we did communicate I knew that in Lacey I had a lifelong friend. His death came as a shock, and it has taken me some time to realize that my friend is gone. I will miss his laugh, his spirit, and his love of life. Lacey, I will cherish my memories of you and hope to meet you again on the other side. And no matter what, Lacey, whenever I hear a particularly loud Harley, I will always think of you and remember setting off the alarms of cars parked on the side of the road, and you saying, "Let's go around the block and do it again!"
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Mary Kay Fisher posted a condolence
Sunday, January 24, 2010
Prayers and condolences to Lacey’s family and to all those blessed to have walked through life with Lacey. Lacey’s mission may have ended on earth but his spirit of endless generosity, humor and love will live on in us all. I will always remember him for his always proclaiming he had the best military jobs while serving our country. Life was simple and he lived that best when he was able to ride and laughs with his friends.
The LORD bless you and keep you; the LORD make his face to shine upon you, and be gracious to you; the LORD lift up his countenance upon you, and give you peace.
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Kenenth Palmer posted a condolence
Saturday, January 23, 2010
My deepsest and most sincere condolences to the family. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. I served with SSG O'Neal in Panama. He was my first Platoon Sergeant. His leadership style will always be a part of who I am. He would stand by his men and fight tooth and nail to support them. He also quite a way of motivating us to correct our mistakes. His leadership style helped guide me through the ranks in the Army and even now as a civilian. I am proud to have served with him and for the opportunity to learn from him. He was a great mentor and player/coach. SSG O'Neal keep your feet and knees together and watch the horizon! AIRBORNE ALL THE WAY!
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Bill and Dodie Richter posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
We will love you and keep you in our memories forever. We will always remember the rides we shared---your never ending camera clicking, and your Johnnny Walker Red Label. Our best memories are at Do-Wa-Diddy with so many friends and so many happy times. Ride, ride, ride---Rubber Down!
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LTC Rob Pote (retired) posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
Staff Sergeant Lacey O'Neal was a miracle worker. If you wanted a 500 pound block of ice in the middle of the jugle at 3 o'clock in the morning, he could reach into his bag of tricks and pull it out. The troops of the 1/508 never went without; from transportation to spare parts of questionable origin, Lacey O'Neal could make magic happen.
He made this happen because he cared so much. He loved soldiering and he loved his soldiers. A tireless worker and quick with a smile - soldiers were naturally drawn to him. The support platoon his unique brand of leadership created was the best platoon I had the pleasure of working with in well over twenty years.
We are all better soldiers and better men for having served with Lacey O'Neal.
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SFC (Ret) Mike Gilbert posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
My condolences to Lacey's family. He was a true paratrooper. I am honored to have known him and served with him.
Airborne
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CSM Donald L. Higgs posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
Lacey was my Platoon SGT while serving in Panama and the first to great me upon arrival. He had a unique way and ability to guide, direct, coach and teach in a away that was masterfully performed to get the job done. Yet at the same time made everyday tasks a pleasure instead of a work effort. He could stand toe to toe with the best and always quick with words. His "Come To Jesus meetings" (otherwise known as group ass chewing's...lol) were rare, but unforgettable and effective. His leadership helped me through out my days as I worked my way through the ranks for years to come. Years later we linked up while I was in Ft Bragg for training and again during his travels through Illinois while on his motorcycle. It was a joy and pleasure to fire up our Harleys and ride side by side. Everyday I see the plaque on my office wall that I received once I left the 1/508 ABN. This was a tradition Lacey started for every Soldier that was under his charge would receive and it continued after he left. Which is rather fitting to the many wonderful thoughts and joy it was to be in his presence. He thought and cared for us always, just as I and our Red Devil Brothers, will always think of him. Thanks for everything Lacey as you keep your knees in the breeze....AIRBORNE!!!
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SFC James Almeida ( US Army Retired ) posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
My heart goes out to all of you who were so close to Henry. I was his Platoon Sergeant in Charlie Company, and we stood side by side during the battle in Panama. He was my senior Squad Leader, and when I was critically injured from a hand grenade, I look at Henry and said, your now the Platoon Sergeant. Once again my condolences, he was one of the most finest persons I had the opportunity to serve with and call a friend. Jim Almeida.
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Shayne Fisher posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
Lacey, I will miss you with my whole Heart. You will always be my friend, father when I need one and the Rock for my support. You gave me the courage everyday to be better then I thought I was. I will see you on the other side. Now the angels have a real JumpMaster!!!! I love you!
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Roscoe E. Wentworth III SFC(Ret) posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
We served and shared a house together in Panama. We linked up again at Bragg. I'm proud to say that we were comardes in arms and friends. Who are they calling blue-boy now?
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LTC David Verdi posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
Lacey is my PLT SGT and has been for the last 20 years. We were a team for several years and they were the best of my career, Lacey is the one who made it that way, the SPT PLT of the 508th was quite the group and Lacey ensured we did the best we could. I tell stories every Christmas about these times as I hang the Airborne ornament he made for the PLT. You will be missed and anyways loved. Airborne
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1SG (Ret) Dennis Munden posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
Wow- what a shock Red Devil. Sure now news I wanted to end the week with. The '08 was a much better place because of Lacey's being there and his dedication to mission. While he could be stubborn at times, he was always upbeat and all about taking care of those he supported. Last saw him for a 10 year reunion where he got to harass our old commander--Fitz, it was a fun time. Keep your feet and knees together Airbonre, you will be missed. DM
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James McEwen posted a condolence
Friday, January 22, 2010
Henry O,Neal was my mentor during basic, AIT and jump school training back then in 1986 and 1987. He will call all of us his baby since he was in charge of us during the training. Half of us flew with Henry to serve in Panama. Even there he will give us advise and let us know if we had any problem to talk to him. Airborne all the the way Sergeant!!
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Tom Robinson posted a condolence
Thursday, January 21, 2010
I will always miss one of my Best Friends. From the day I met you at High School we have had a special bond. From our Air Force time to the Guard and Reserve. You were a remarkable person and Friend. I'll miss your laughter and the great friend you were.
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Sergeant First Class (RET) Michael L. Greenwell posted a condolence
Thursday, January 21, 2010
To the family of Lacey O'Neal. While there are no words that could ever accurately describe Lacey, I do have a few that describe him for me. I served with Lacey in Panama during the Invasion and in Fort Bragg. To me, Lacey was my Platoon Sergeant, a mentor, a Father-figure, and a Brother, not just a Brother in Arms but a Brother in the truest sense. He helped guide me through difficult times and I am definitely a better person for having the privelage of knowing him. I am deeply sorry for your loss and Lacey, Airborne All the Way SERGEANT!!!!!
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Jim Kintzele posted a condolence
Thursday, January 21, 2010
Twas always a pleasure "doing science" with Lacey. I really appreciated his desire and can-do attitude to help in any and all matters. Lacey even kept a smile on his face when we didn't agree!
I look forward to meeting you in the future, my Friend. Your memory continues to live in each and every one of us, and I will look for your fond smile and great demeanor when I check out.
Until then...
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Tim Sinquefield posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Lacey was an all around good guy. I definatley will miss seeing him up super early in the morning drinking coffee out of that ugly, never washed, Harley Davidson mug of his. He gave me some good advice in the past year and a half I knew him. I'll remember that and the attitude towards life he brought with me everywhere I go. Thank you Lacey, I will miss you.
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Julio L. Lorenzo posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
When I join the M-II, Lacey was one of the first person I meet and since then I find out what a wonderfull person he was, the death of Lacey is a great lost for all of us.
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Helen Ballantyne posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
I sailed with Lacey for just one cruise on the MacII, and I'll never forget him. He was an immediate friend. I have fond memories of his strong coffee, his dirty cup (kept that way intentionally), and his warm spirit. He made me laugh every morning, when I would drop my sleepy head on his shoulder. I am fortunate to have known him, if only briefly. My sincere regards to family, friends, and shipmates.
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Amanda Wenzlaff posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
I have to include a funny memory for Stephanie. Lacey and I hit it off immediately when he found out that my father was a Harley rider. You can imagine his disgust when I told Lacey that dad sold his Harley for a Honda Gold Wing. I thought he was going to be ill! The look on his face was priceless. Dad finally saw the light and he got another Harley. This made Lacey VERY happy. Ride on Lacey
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Dawn Breese posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Knowing Lacey was a true joy. He had a huge heart of gold and was so wise. He showed the value of humor, kindness and a smile. I was able to live vicariously on a Harley through Lacey! Thank you my friend. I miss you. My thoughts go out to Lacey's family. He was a true gem.
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John Petersen posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Lacey, The Mac won't be the same without the great character you were. Like Andrew said, new Ensigns will miss out by not receiving your witty banter. I miss you dearly.
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Paul Fiedler posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
I sailed several times with Lacey as AB and as survey tech. He was a pleasure to work with and contributed much to our studies. I was looking forward to finally sailing with you again this year, Lacey. You will be missed!
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Demian Bailey posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Lacey, you had a gift for making people feel good, even when you were making fun of us! I'll miss that, and I'll miss you.
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Candice Hall posted a condolence
Wednesday, January 20, 2010
Lacey taught me many things during our years of early mornings at sea together, both personal and professional. His love for life, huge heart and sense of humour made him an honour to know and the best Super Survey Tech for me (he had me convinced for months that that was his real title!). Lace, may all your niskins be cocked and your tank full. Thank you for all of your gifts to us, your generocity of heart and humour inspires us all to be better humans. May the knowledge that you've touched so many lives bring solace and a small measure of comfort to those you leave behind. Love and hugs, Candy
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Josh Slater posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Lacey, I have been struggling with what to write you for some time… There are so many fond memories and mixes of emotions, which I cannot quite put into words. I thought it would be nice to find a touching poem where someone else was able to voice what is hard to say, but nothing I found really fit the bill. Instead let me just say that I consider myself blessed to know you. You were always more than a friend to me and you will be missed dearly. Love you man. -Josh
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Sophie Webb posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
I was so shocked when I heard about Lacey. I still can’t quite believe it. He was far too young to leave us.
I will never forget his kindness. When I first started working for NOAA I had recently split up with my husband. I was shy and not particularly sure of myself, just beginning my life working on research vessels. His friendly and welcoming nature those first months on the mini Mac completely put me at ease. Since that time I always looked forward to working on the Mac knowing that there would be one friend on board.
It wasn’t until I realized that all the lovely photos of landscapes and marine mammals around his work station were his that I found out what a good photographer he was. I remember his excitement when we chatted about his plans to do a book on lighthouses. It would give him an excuse to travel along the coast on his beloved Harley. Sadly now we will never get a chance to see that beautiful book.
When I next go out on the McArthur II it will be odd to not have Lacey there: to not see him sitting in front of his computers, to not hear his teasing gravely voice and to not have him around to simply chat with. The loss of such a kind and generous man will be difficult for all who sailed with him.
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Jan posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Lacey, I know you're out there riding the waves on your bike. Now you can surf the high seas on your bike, with your hands free to photograph the wildlife. When I step outside, there will be a glint of sparkle-blue over the ocean and the desert, and that will be your cue that you are there. Always helpful and funny. You gave me guidance. I know you loved your family on land and at sea. I am honored that you have touched my life and I will miss your mantra on boats, "There are three kinds of boats, one that has been on fire, one that will be on fire, and one that's on fire." Peace, Jan
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kris posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Do not stand at my grave and weep,
I am not there, I do not sleep.
I am a thousand winds that blow.
I am the diamond glint on snow.
I am the sunlight on ripened grain.
I am the gentle autumn rain.
When you wake in the morning hush,
I am the swift, uplifting rush
Of quiet birds in circling flight.
I am the soft starlight at night.
Do not stand at my grave and weep.
I am not there, I do not sleep.
Do not stand at my grave and cry.
I am not there, I did not die!
so my dear friend ride the skys on the wings of angles
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Amanda Wenzlaff posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
My heart breaks knowing I will not see Lacey on the decks of the Mac anymore. He was a vital part of the crew. I will always remember our ride to Portland. I was only able to sail with him for about 2 years...he made everyone feel welcome. I will carry my memories of Lacey in my heart with such great gratitude. My heart goes out to all of his family and friends. Ride on Lacey.
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Paula Olson posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
When Lacey showed up on the Little Mac the ship immediately became a brighter place. Lacey's humor and enthusiasm made all of our days on the Mac so much more fun. He will be sorely missed and always remembered. My heartfelt condolences to his family.
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William / Mary Hance posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Lacey was a true friend, more like a brother, He has a great collection of pictures, of Whale,and Dolfins that i got from him.
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Sam Hardy posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Lacey was a really good shipmate and a great guy to hang out with inport, I didn't sail with Him for very long but enjoyed the time we did spend on the Little Mac, My condolences to all His Family and Friends.
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Andrew Colegrove posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Lacey was a large part of my family on the Mac. I will miss being able to count on Lacey to give the newly arrived Ensigns a hard time. He would have any newbie whipped into shape in no time. I will miss the galley cribbage games, even though he destroyed me the majority of the time. You are well loved and sorely missed, my dear friend. Go in peace until we meet again...
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Brad Delinski posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 19, 2010
Lacey was not only family at sea, but also a brother in arms. I'll miss sharing the Army jokes and stories. You will be sorely missed by all. My heart is playing TAPS for you Brother.
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Beth Goodwin posted a condolence
Monday, January 18, 2010
I didn't sail with Lacey as many years as others, but in the 3 or 4 cruises I did with him, he ALWAYS had a great sense of humor, he was ALWAYS willing to help the scientist with whatever new project we came up with, he was ALWAYS the smile at the end of the deck. You could ALWAYS count on Lacey....."And we're doing science now"....
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Charmine McKinley posted a condolence
Monday, January 18, 2010
Someday we will ride together again Lacy...in the mean time put as many miles in the sky as you can! You will be deeply missed. Always, Charmine McKinley
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Gary Friedrichsen posted a condolence
Monday, January 18, 2010
Like many of Lacey's friends I met him on the Mac and was able to share in his joy for life at sea and the people that cruised through the decks and bulwarks of the two ships we worked on together. Lacey was always dependable for his effort and for a good light heart to help the days go by. He was a great spirit and I celebrate his life with you all.
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Greg posted a condolence
Sunday, January 17, 2010
It is difficult to convey the range of feelings I have had this past week. Lacey was not only a co-worker but a very good friend for many years. I grieve the loss on both fronts. My heart goes out to Lacey's family and the many friends he made over the years. To say he will be missed is a gross understatement. The ship and all the lives he touched elsewhere will forever feel a void. I am not a fan of good-bye's so I will leave it at "see ya later" Lacey. Thank you for the years of laughter and support. I love you brother.
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Michael Force, Lake Country BC posted a condolence
Sunday, January 17, 2010
So long Lacey. I feel lucky to have spent all those years on the McArthur and McArthur II with you. I'll never forget your first SWFSC marine mammal cruise on the McArthur, the year you and I met in one of the Cribbage finals. Your razor-sharp sardonic wit and uncanny ability to find humour in any situation will be sorely missed.
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LISA (BENNETT) PAPE posted a condolence
Sunday, January 17, 2010
IT'S NOT EASY SAYING GOOD-BYE, TO A LOVED ONE & FRIEND, WHO HAS LEFT US FOR THE SWEET BYE AND BYE. WHERE EVER HE MAY WANDER, WHERE EVER HE MAY ROAM, WE PRAY HE HAS FOUND PEACE IN HIS ETERNAL HOME. MAY FOND MEMORIES WE HOLD VERY DEAR, AND THROUGH THESE MEMORIES HE WILL ALWAYS BE NEAR. THOUGH DEATH HAS US PARTED ON TWO DIFFERENT SHORES,WE WILL LOOK FORWARD FOR THE RIDE WE'LL ALL BE TOGETHER WITH YOU.SO GOOD-BYE OUR DEAR FRIEND WHO'S LAIN DOWN TO REST.WE LOOK FORWARD TO SEEING YOU IN GOD'S HARLEY PROMISED LAND. RIDE ON MY FRIEND TO THE WIDE OPEN BLUE SKIES. SAY HI TO MAX FROM ME.
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Bill McNally posted a condolence
Sunday, January 17, 2010
Lacey O'Neal was an Army man, and then a professional mariner. He was at home in his ship and on the sea. Lacey was a fount of information about the operations, and everything else on board. He always had a pleasant word for his fellow sailors. I think he enjoyed his work and being with his shipmates as much as riding his Harley. Vaya con Dios, Lacey.
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Merri-Sue posted a condolence
Sunday, January 17, 2010
Oh Lacey how we will miss you! You would give the shirt off your back and ask if you could do more. We will all miss your laugh and remember how your face lit up when you were with friends and on your bike.
Love and miss you
Merri-Sue and family
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