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Benjamin Caskey posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 27, 2012
God's Speed Ben. Thank you for everything you taught me. You will greatly be missed.
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Magda Reyes posted a condolence
Monday, March 26, 2012
Never met you but knew how wonderful you were, by friends and co-worker from PR whom you provided adequate equipment in cold weather, talk wonders about you, i am very soory i never got to meet you in person..you were one of those good leader to the Community Relations staff., RIP Ben.
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Magda Reyes posted a condolence
Monday, March 26, 2012
Never met you but knew how wonderful you were, by friends and co-worker from PR whom you provided adequate equipment in cold weather, talk wonders about you, i am very soory i never got to meet you in person..you were one of those good leader to the Community Relations staff., RIP Ben.
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Brook McKee Region 5 IA posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 21, 2012
My goodness Ben! In our work we touch so many lives that sometimes we forget how much we touch each other just working. And yes you touched mine too in Wisconsin when you encouraged me to sing at our picnic. That dreaded word Karaoke...and I did. Funny, the song I sang was "The Wind Beneath My Wings". You have yours now. We love you! Your family is in all our prayers.
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Deirdre (Dee) Totten posted a condolence
Monday, March 19, 2012
I was stunned and saddened to learn of Ben's passing. I worked with Ben at State EMD in the mid-90s and will never forget Ben's enthusiasm and excitement one day when showing me his CR "application" to FEMA - it was at least 6 inches thick, full of newspaper articles with all the good works Ben had been involved with thus far in his career and so proud of. Being fairly new to Emergency Management I thought to myself hmmmmm.... so this is what a FEMA application should look like. Ben had set a high bar! Our paths indirectly crossed again several years ago when I was researching flood plans and I was directed to Chalice. Hearing the name Dew, I asked at the end of our conversation, are you by any chance, related to Ben? Yes, of course and extended my best wishes to Ben. I agree with Dave Rider's comments below, the world needs more Ben Dews. Ben: one incredible guy. Sending my heartfelt condolences to the Dew family.
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Deborah Wright Henderson posted a condolence
Monday, March 19, 2012
What can be said that hasn't already been said. Whenever I hear the name Ben Dew I cannot help but smile. Ben was a great mentor and I am thankful and honored to have had the pleasure to work with him and will always be grateful for his positive attitude and passion for helping others. Ben will be greatly missed! Until we meet again....
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Pam Wagoner DAE CR FEMA , Lebanon , IN posted a condolence
Sunday, March 18, 2012
My thoughts and prayers are with Family and Friends of Ben Dew. Ben was such and inspiration to me and many others. I first met Ben in Katrina and was scared and not really sure what to expect. Ben assured us making all of feel safe and comfortable. I will never forget Ben as he had a special place in my heart. He always briefed us in the mornings before going out and made sure he was there if someone needed him..
GOD Bless you each and every one and I know he touched many of us. He will not be forgotten , I know he touched many of us in FEMA.
May GOD give you comfort.
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Jean Massingham, Lewis Cty, WA, DEM Retired posted a condolence
Sunday, March 18, 2012
I first met Ben back in his early days in WA State DEM. Many of us local directors thought we were training Ben, when in fact, he was teaching us. What memories! Great guy. Loyal friend. Amazing sense of humor and too many tricks to mentionl Debbie, when I met you with Ben In Olympia, it was so obvious you were so good together. He was always so proud of his children and had good reason to be. I could write volumes. I miss just knowing he is no longer on this earth. How sad for his family. You were not ready to give him up, but obviously he is needed somewhere in a higher realm.
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teresa posted a condolence
Sunday, March 18, 2012
can u imagine the reunion Joel, Alan, Jimmie and now Ben...how we all will miss him...blessings and prayers for his family...
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Hether Bachman posted a condolence
Sunday, March 18, 2012
Ben was always fun and inspirational. I worked with him last year in Mississippi and was amazed at the level of activity surrounding him and the constant humor. He will be very missed.
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Nick Ho posted a condolence
Sunday, March 18, 2012
I had a privileged working with Ben during hurricane Ike in Houston. What a GREAT Mentor and a friend to have. My condolence to the family and may he Rest In Peace. God Bless!!!
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William & Cathy Simmons (Idaho Guy) posted a condolence
Sunday, March 18, 2012
To Ben's family. May God Bless and keep you all very close during your time of loss. May He carry you all thru the rough times and also help you to remember the happy times. Ben was bigger than life and also a very positive force you always wanted to be around.
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Teresa Williams posted a condolence
Saturday, March 17, 2012
We were all better people, just having the honor to know him. You will be missed so much, by so many. He truly was a friend to all. I wish I could have said goodbye.
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Brynne Walker posted a condolence
Saturday, March 17, 2012
To his family-
I only just met Ben at FEMA's African American Leadership Conference In D.C in August, but I had heard so many positive things about him while working at EMD. When I got the opportunity to meet him at the conference, it was truely a treat and he really inspired me to continue my work in Emergency Management. My prayers go out to his family, God Bless
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Jean Bye posted a condolence
Saturday, March 17, 2012
Though I only knew Ben briefly I was touched by his patience and kindness with me, he was such a real special soul, he was able to put people at ease with his sense of calm. We will miss him terribly at FEMA and my prayers go out to his family.
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Jane Vukonich, FEMA RX - Retired posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
To Ben’s Dear Family and to Chalice to whom I know. I met Ben 19 years ago when FEMA, RX borrowed him from the state to work the Midwest floods. I watched Ben and Jessie Jackson calm a near riotous crowd, due to the failure of the water filtration system in Des Moines, IA. Ben and Jessie made an awesome duo. I witnessed the crowd disburse with a sense of calm and purpose.
My parents worked for Ben as state reservists and also as Red Cross volunteers. Not long after Ben came to work for FEMA my father was diagnosed with cancer. In 2000, when the end was near - Ben came to my father’s hospital bed and reminisced with him about some flooded vehicles. They laughed and Ben squeezed my Dad’s hand and said, until we meet again Ev, and Dad said yes, until we meet again Ben. Ben will forever have a special place in our hearts.
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Richard Schroedel posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
"Don’t Quit" while an anonymous poem definitely belonged to Ben. I don’t know how many times I heard him recite it. A meeting would end and Ben would say “I have a poem that I want to recite.” And he would jump right into it. I know that “Don’t Quit” will always remind me of Ben, as will his perpetual smile, warm handshake and desire to help in any way that he could. I am sure that his goal in life was to do as much good as he could, and he did. I haven’t seen Ben for the last few years, but I will always consider him a friend. I also know that if he ever gets the chance to say a few words to St. Peter at some point he’ll say “I have a poem…”
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Marty Best posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
Reading over some of the other comments brought back fond memories of all the travels Ben and did during more disasters than I can remember here in Washington. What amazed me, and helped me establish my own goals, was that whenever anyone called with a problem Ben would find a way to solve it. Didn’t matter what it was or who it was – he was the most caring and creative person I know.., the stories we’d share during the road trips were enough to bring tears to my eyes – these are things that I will always treasure and remember about Ben
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Lora "Murphy" Miklethun posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
Ben came to work at EMD shortly after I did in the early 70's. He had a big personality, engaging way with people, and great sense of humor and fun. We worked lots of projects and disasters together over the years. It was a joy to work with him. He will be greatly missed.
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Rosanne Garrand & Family posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
Ben Dew was compassionate, caring, fun, and a wonderful friend. Everyone knows that – everyone he touched will remember him; cherish the memories. He will be missed. I guess God needed some help!
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Orlando Prieto,FEMA REG I,Puerto Rico posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, for the Lord, the Spirit. 2 Corinthians 3:18 friend will remember forever .
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Rex Jenson posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
Energy? Personality? Boundless! Dedication? Tenacity? Absolute! I am saddened greatly by the loss of a dear friend and an emergency management compatriot. I should have hugged you when I last saw you in Alabama, Ben but the handshake memory will have to suffice. Memories! As long as we all remember, Ben will live on in each of us. Darn the tears just now!
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Toney Raines posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
Ben-You are my brother from another mother and have now gone to be with our Father. I will miss you dearly but, find great solace knowing we shall walk the same halls in the kingdom of heaven in the times to come.
Family- I am truly saddened by Ben's death. Ben was more than just a friend; He was an amazing person. He was always so kind and considerate to me that I always welcomed seeing him at every opportunity and he gave great man hugs too!
His passing will not only leave a void in my life, but in the hearts of everyone who knew him. Ben's memory will always remain deep within my heart. My sincere thoughts and prayers are with you always.
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Joan Rave posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
My darling friend, there is a big huge Ben Dew shaped hole in FEMA where you stood so solid for so long. We miss you deeply and no one will ever take your place.
Dew Family, thank you for so generously sharing your Dad and Husband Ben with us, your loving generosity made his great gifts possible.
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Krystle Anderson- FEMA RX posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
How lucky are all of us to have known Ben? There are a few people that you encounter in life that are good, happy people - to the core. I can't think of a time that I left a conversation with Ben with anything less than a smile on my face. He made me feel welcome, worthwhile, and .... better. When other (myself included) are stressed and complaining and worried... Ben is still Ben, as happy and encouraging as ever. What an amazing gift he shared with us. I regret not getting to know him better, but I am truly grateful that I knew him at all. Cheers to you, Ben. Fair winds and following seas.
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Neil Molenaar -3-16-2012 posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
Members of Ben Dew's family,
As you each continue your respective journey without Ben may the huge turn out of postings on this Guest Page serve as a source of great assurance that during the time that Ben had on this earth the Lord gave him the capacity to "light up a room when he entered" and also serve as a "beacon of light" and a source of hope to those that had the privilege of interacting with him. From the contacts that I had with Ben I am left the impression that he endeavored to respond to what is recorded in Micah 6:8 "And what does the Lord require of you? To love mercy, seek justice and walk humbly with your Lord". Blessings to all members of Ben's family,friends and colleagues in the days ahead!
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Nina M. Coleman posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
My prayers go out to the Dew family and friends. I pray you receive peace and comfort during this time of bereavement. Before meeting Ben personally last year, I had heard his name around FEMA for years! All positive, what a great mentor, what a friendly guy and much more. So family please find comfort in knowing he touched many lives in a great way and his presences will be missed but his spirit will live on around us. 1 Peter 5:7 Casting all your cares upon him; for he careth you.
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Sarah Puls and Family posted a condolence
Friday, March 16, 2012
Only met Mr. Dew at Chalice's surprise 40th birthday party but what
a treat he was to meet. Both my husband & I were instantly drawn to this funloving man. Dear Chalice, I am so very sorry for your immense loss. You and your family are in my prayers and I am wishing
for you Peace in your Heart. Stand tall dear friend and be proud of the woman you are in great part due to the father you had. You will always be his pride and joy I know. Sending love across the sea xoxo
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orlando prieto ,San Juan.Puerto Rico posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
But we all, with unveiled face, beholding as in a mirror the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from glory to glory, for the Lord, the Spirit. 2 Corinthians 3:18
friend will remember forever ... Orlando Prieto, san juan Puerto Rico
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Toni Simpson-Region V, Ohio posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Ben was on my first deployment. He was such a help in making us all feel useful and part of the group. He will always be remembered in my heart as the kind soul he was. My condolences to his family and friends.
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Ms. Debra Slaughter(Thomas) posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
My prayers to the family. I grew up with Ben as I called him, Siblings Shirley,Gail. I am so sorry for your loss. I shall never foget his great big smiles always. I am so sorry I won't be able to attend the service due to my jobs workshop preplanned months ago. I am mailing a card to the family. To show my love and support. we all grew up on the eastside of Tacoma were the Tacoma dome now sits., My mom the late Bennie Mae Slaughter, was friends with the great cooking your mom Ms Dew. Sincerely heartfelt sorrow. God knows and see's the best to give them rest amen.
Ms. Debby Slaughter
Debbyddt@aol.com
253/882-7410 cell call if I may help in any way God's comfort upon you all.
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Linda Baldry posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Dear Debbie, I was there for your engagement in FL. and for the party of love after. And I loved your husband to the my core. Ben and I did a lot of disasters together and he always brought a special essence to everyone of them. I hope you can take solace in the outpouring of love for Ben that is evident on this page and the pages and pages of condolences on Facebook. He was loved and he will be missed!
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Martha Hocutt, widow of Jimmie Hocutt posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
My family wishes to express our sympathy to the family of Ben. He was a special person to many. Ben's positive outlook on life was a great motivation to the people he met and worked with.
With fond memories,
Martha Hocutt
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Mary McKenna, FEMA Region III, Philadelphia, Pa posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Thank you to Ben's Family for sharing him with us and allowing us to know him and experience His incredible work ethic and his love and passion for the work that he performed. I will never forget when Ben introduced me to the "Prayer of Techumsah". Very inspiring! He will surely be missed!
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Martha Hocutt, widow of Jimmie Hocutt posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
My family wishes to express our sympathy to the family of Ben. He was a special person to many. Ben's positive outlook on life was a great motivation to the people he met and worked with.
With fond memories,
Martha Hocutt
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Diana Seifert, FEMA Region 10 Public Affairs posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Just a few weeks ago, Ben talked to a training class of External Affairs newbies about Community Relations. With his magical touch, CR became the heart of disaster assistance. He urged the trainees to go beyond what they think they can do and do whatever they can to bring love and practical solutions to the people they're helping. He was inspiring people right to the end! My heart goes out to you who have lost your father and your friend.
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John A. Patterson posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Ben Dew, you and your zeal for life will be sadly missed but thoughts of you will continue to bring smiles to the many thousands of lives you touched along your journey.
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John A. Patterson posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Ben Dew, you and your zeal for life will be sadly missed but thoughts of you will continue to bing smiles to the many thousands of lives you touched along your journey.
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Debra Young posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
To Ben's family,
I work with FEMA Public affairs and only worked with Ben once, in Madision, WI. I remember how approachable he was and the great energy he brought to the job. He garnered great respect from his co-workers and I know those affected by disaster were greatly affected by his work as well.
So sorry for your loss and praying for your strength and comfort.
Debra Young
Stone Mountain, GA
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Susan Trisler - Region 1 Community Relations DAE posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Thank you for sharing Ben with us. He was an incredible person with a heart of gold. We will all carry on for you Ben. Rest in Peace my friend.
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Natalie Chavez Bellingham, WA posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Dear Chalice and Family,
Your father rocked!
I left his training class with a smile on my face and more hope in my heart. His passion for helping people was obvious. He will be greatly missed. The world is a brighter and more disaster-prepared place because of him.
With heartfelt sympathy,
Natalie
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Cindy Webster posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Debbie
I am so sorry. I dont even know what to say. We all loved Ben and his loss to our entire family is a huge one. He had such a big heart and personality he will be missed by all who knew him. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish I could be there on Saturday but I have to work. I will be thinking about everyone though
Love you
Cindy
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Dave Rider - Belize, Central America posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
I first met Ben when I came to DES, as it was then known, for my professional internship from EWU in 1981. Ben and I shared an office. He was an amazing and fun guy to know. Little did I know I would actually work with him for many more years to come. He helped me to set up our first Disaster Assistance Council when I was a coordinator for Clark-Skamania DES. And later, we worked together more closely when I came to State DES in 1986.
I was always in awe of Ben's ability to fire up a group of folks to do what was needed in the face of disaster. He was perfectly placed at EMD as our Public Assistance Coordinator. Ben was always able to 'comshaw' what little stuff we had access to into value for victims of disaster, such as a replacement bridge for an isolated community, a rebuilt community center, etc. In short, whatever the victims needed, whether individuals or whole communities, Ben was always able to coerce someone, somewhere, somehow, to accomplish the task, usually for very little or no payment, except the thanks Ben would generate from within himself and the community he was trying to help.
I'll treasure always my remembrances of Ben and his selfless and caring work. He was certainly an inspiration to me and others in the Emergency Management field. The world needs more Ben Dews.
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David and Sharon Wright posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
What a wonderful tribute to your dad by all these responses in the
guest book. He was a agreat man and we know you will miss him dearly. Our thoughts and prayers are with you and your familys. Love David and Sharon
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Mary lee Wulff posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Heartfelt condolences to ALL of Ben's family
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Connie Lewis - DAE R-X posted a condolence
Thursday, March 15, 2012
Well, Ben, you've walked the talk for so many years. Now you're on a whole new adventure - leaving us behind to carry your message forward. It's up to us, all you have touched, to carry on your mission of love and caring: for each other; for those touched by disaster.
Each bear hug, each word from you left a legacy on us; each kindness, a miracle to learn from and pass along. Thanks, Ben, for who you are, who you were, and for vesting in us a part of your true self - a mandate to pass it forward. To don't quit. And most of all, to "don't do nothing."
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Suzie Cummings posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
My heart goes out to all of Ben's family. Ben was such a great guy to work with during my time at Washington State DEM from 1975-86. One of the things that touched me is how much he loved his family!
As soon as Ben would get Chalice's school pics he would bring them to work and pass them out to us with a big grin on his face. I feel blessed that he was part of my life. God Bless.
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Flo Ward posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
We lost a champion and a mentor. It was a sad day for us when we were informed of Ben’s demised and a sad day for the FEMA family. Ben was a pioneer and he will be missed. To the Dew family, our deepest sympathy. We have been blessed to know him and worked with him. Rest in Peace, Ben, you are in heaven.
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James Tyner posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I would like to thank Benard Dew personally for his leadership, inspiration and his outside the box insight. Sorry I waited so long to thank you Ben, but it's never to late to thank and give blessing to a real man. When Ben came to play the game he played to win the game, (heart, soul and desire). Weather it was football, wrestling or any sports he chose, it was an all out effort. As a younger man I was blessed to have known, and participated with such a great athlete and a powerful mentor. I'll See you in Heaven Mr. Ben Dew, and God Bless all the family and friends alike.
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Carmen Layne posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I met Ben once or twice in the early 1970's. He did leave an impression on me. Of course he was the life of our party, telling us story after story and he had us laughing till tears ran down our faces. I will always remember his kindness in making me feel comfortable, his wonderful sense of humor and his energy. My heart felt condolences to his family. I know he will be missed.
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VALERIE IRLBECK BUTLER posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
MY HEART FELT CONDOLENCE TO THE FAMILY OF BENARD, A GREAT GUY WHO TOUCHED MANY LIVES, I CAN STILL HEAR YOUR LAUGH AND YOUR JOKES. YOU WILL BE SOOOOOOOOO MISSED.
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Raymond D. Pendell, EMD Reservist posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
The moment I ment Ben, I knew I had a new friend and a partner that I could depend on in emergency management. I am priveliged to have known Ben and his inspiration on me and many others. I will miss him very much, but his memory will live with me forever. May he rest in peace and in the loving arms of our Lord in heaven. God bless you Ben, and may your family be at peace and be comforted for the great legecy and influence you have left all of us.
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John Pennington and Snohomish County posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Ben was an amazing man and true inspiration. He had that unassuming knack for success that just worked in any type of disaster. He offered to those in need more than just "programs". He offered a warm, smiling, and comforting face to literally thousands of disaster victims... the right person at the right time for them. He will be missed and his family is my thoughts and prayers. Best wishes. John Pennington and the whole Snohomish County EM family.
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Alice Jansson, FEMA Region X posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
A couple of weeks ago following a heavy rain, I was walking outside, and noticed Ben Dew, bending over picking up something in the parking lot, as I walked by He continued to do so, and I peeked to see what he was doing.
Oh! I said, I thought that I was the only adult who pick up earth worms from the concrete and put them back in the grass! Oh no he said, I do this to remind myself that I am not “all that”. I need to do a lot more of this!
You know they will drown here in the puddles, or die later because they don’t have the earth to protect them? Yes I knew. AND did you know that earthworms are the basis for the eco-system, why without them we all CROAK? No I did not know that, I just thought I was a little weird, feeling bad for earthworms all dried out on the cement. Yep he said, a helping hand is a helping hand. We all matter.
We had a nice chat out there picking up worms from the puddles, and returning them gently to the grass. I shared how I am a DAE, and often do not feel very important, and how my job is not important, I just try to do a good job and be cheerful, and watch with awe how many of us make such a large contribution to FEMA and the world….I was feeling very small.
He shared how he KNEW that the world depends on the little guy, and how we are all important to the larger scheme of things. He reminded me that we all have a contribution to make, and how each of us matters, and how much he enjoyed my smile, and cheerful self as he passed me around the building. He noticed that I am always busy and happy.
I had no idea that he had ever noticed me but then, he was a man who knew that worms are important and, that an encouraging word is as important as a helping hand.
I think I am going to smile, every time I think of him.
Alice Jansson
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Jeanette Lomax posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I worked with Ben from 1985-1999 at EMD and enjoyed every minute of it. The Emergency Management world has lost a radiant star and guiding light with his passing. He touched all our lives with his friendship, humor, and joyful personality. I extend my sympathies and condolences to his family members, wife, and children. Ben, you will be missed and thought of often.
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Joseph Miller Sr and Family posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Ben will be missed by all the lives he touched. Ben and I go way back to the 60's. I hadn't seen him much over the years but we did remember our times as young Men. God has him now. So to the Family just trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. He shall make your path straight.
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Robin Lea posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Barabara said I should NOT have mentioned Ben's thighs. I am sooo sorry that this may have offended family members feelings. It was meant as my admiration of his athletic abilities on the football field. I was a cheerleader when Ben was a Junior at Stadium. Doesn't make me any the less sad that he is gone. Your friend, Robin Lea
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Nancy Josue posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
My husband Allan worked with Ben at the State Emergency Management Dept. I only met Ben on three occasions, the last being my husband's funeral. Allan spoke often and with great respect about Ben's abilities and his sense of humor. My heart is with Ben's family as they now begin the long road called GRIEF. The journey is easier if you stop often along the road and recall the many great moments and fun times you had with Ben. And Ben, my message for you - when you meet Allan in Heaven, give him that great bear hug of yours.
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Evelyn W. Eilers posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I first met you when my husband Ev and I were working in Family Service for the Red Cross. We later connected when I was volunteering for Joan Sterling at Washington State Emergency Management. Our final connections were on several disasters in Washington State. You took time out of your hectic days to come say a final goodbye to my beloved Ev. I will always remember you for your compassion and love of people.
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Joseph Miller Sr and Family posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Ben will be missed by all the lives he touched. Ben and I go way back to the 60's. I hadn't seen him much over the years but we did remember our times as young Men. God has him now. So to the Family just trust in the lord with all your heart and lean not on your own understanding. He shall make your path straight.
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Robin and Barbara Lea posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Both Barbara and I (Robin) are proud to know the wonderful, gorgeous Ben Dew. His smile, his laugh, his tremendous thighs, his football prowess his kind "hey!" while passing in the halls of Stadium.We are truly saddened by his passing. We have often talked about you and will always remember you. Love, Barbara and Robin
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Walt and Randee Johnson posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Although Randee and I only met and spent little time with Benard over the years, we regarded him a friend. He made us feel that way, thats the person he was. I remember meeting him the first time many years ago and thinking what a great guy and father he was.
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Susan Healey posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
To all Ben's Family -- I am a better person because I knew and laughed out loud with Ben. When I think of him I smile. I wish you peace and fond memories.
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Linda and Scott Calkins posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Debbie and Chalice, Christmas will never be the same without Big Ben. No more big, booming voice. No more crazy hysterical stories, told again! Even though a lot of them were at Linda Dew's expense we loved to hear them. There is a giant hole where Ben once was never to be filled because there was only ONE Ben Dew. He was truely authentic. He was alway Ben no matter what. He also had a fierce love for his family. When the kidding was done you could have great serious conversations with Ben about the world in general. We will never forget Benard.
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James McIntyre, FEMA External Affairs Disaster Ops posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
We have truly lost a very valued leader of the Federal Emergency Management Agency's Community Relations family. Ben, as a Community Relations Officer, trainer and mentor led by example. He was always a champion for the Disaster survivors around the nation, FEMA and the Community Relations Team. He will be missed as a member of the FEMA family, a true and dedicated professional, and a friend to all of us. Rest in peace, Ben.
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Walt Marchel DAE Newport,Or. posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I as well as many others are proud to call ourselves PIGS and CRABS. Ben helped explain the way to best do our jobs as CR team members and to work ourselves out of a job. He taught us to have a good time and to treasure our friends and coworkers, respecting any and all we come in contact with.
Thanks Ben for the information about the Lemay Car Museum. Many of us will miss going there with you.
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Florence Nelson posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I had the pleasure of working with Ben when I first got deployed, and I remebered him as being a very nice yet humorous individual. He always loved my smile. Ben, you will be missed. My deepest sympathies to the Dew family.
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Mara Mowery posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I have been proud to call Ben a friend, a colleague and an inspiration. His indomitable spirit always served to uplift and encourage, his sincerity served as a road to follow. Ben will live on in the memories of so many. My heartfelt condolences to Ben's family.
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Sharon Judie posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Sending my prayers to my family. Ben's BIG personality will definitely be missed. He impacted us all with his smile, laugh and loving spirit.
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JoAnn Oram posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
May you feel comfort knowing how deeply Ben was loved, respected and held dear by others.
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Althea Fontenot posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
My condolences to the family. A truly "good guy" who will certainly be missed.
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Linda Mariz, Bellingham posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
As I read all this and weep onto the desk blotter, I'm looking for the answer to my question: how can I get a heart just like Ben's?
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Mary Ellen Murchison and Jerry Kiltz posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I had the pleasure of working with Ben on two disasters, most recently in New York. Ben's passion and enthusiasm for FEMA and the citizens we serve was one of his most remarkable traits. Our love and prayers go out to Ola and all of Ben's family.
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Mai Banh posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I am shock and sadness to hear about the death of Ben. I was deployed and work with him in LEP team in New York from September to November 2011. He was a wonderful lead. I will always remember his positive energy, kindness, and wonderful smile. With deepest sympathy and heartfelt condolences, our thoughts are with you and your family.
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Debbie Marks posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
My deepest condolences to the family. My prayer for the family is that God will bless and keep you as you heal.
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Richard & Debra Deir posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
We are saddened and mourn the loss of Ben. Ben will always be remembered as a kind and thoughtful man as well as a wonderful human being. I've known and worked with Ben for over 35 years and will truly miss him and will always remember, "Don't Quit".
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Yvonne Antoine-Wilson posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
"Perhaps they are not the stars, but rather openings in Heaven where the love of our lost ones pours through and shines down upon us to let us know they are happy."
~ Unknown
Ben Dew brought me into CR as a local hire during Katrina and I had the honor to work with him again this past year in New York. Ben was larger than life in CR, he knew FEMA and cared deeply about affected residents, as well as DAE’s. He always had an encouraging word for residents, a listening ear for all and on a lighter note loved to laugh and play practical jokes on friends. FEMA and mankind have truly lost a bright star that now shines prominently in heaven.
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Anthony C. Judie posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Ben will be missed by all. The one thing I will always remenber about Ben is his advise and guidenace he had for those of us who were strugglung at different times through out our lives. His loud booming voice was one that stood out in a crowd but at the same time in one on one converstions, it was comforting, warm, and calming. Talking to Ben at the family gatherings on the Hilltop was a pleasure and joy not only for me, but for everyone in attendance. Ben will truly be missed.
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Lark Stewart posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Ben touched many of our lives with his endless caring that was genuine. Whether a colleague needing inspiration, someone in need of motivation, with his “Don’t Quit” poem recited with passion, or the many disaster survivors that received his community relations teams’ work. An inspiring leader, he “walked the talk” and will surely be missed but remembered for the difference he made with his life.
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Nick Delmedico posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
Ben, we shared our love of good books, swapping our favorites. Your concern was always for the survivors. It was this part of your humanity that made you such an incredible person. The other thing you had in abundance was enthusiasm. I've seen you excite the most tired, depressed, worn out people and motivate them to get out in 100 degree heat to go door to door through trashed neighborhoods carrying the message of hope and recovery. I have had generous helpings of that enthusiasm when I needed it the most. You're not a person soon forgotten, but someone who has made his mark on the world, and not just in the world, but in the people who populate the world. And it is in those memories, in the hearts and minds of the individuals who have been touched by your unending gift of life, that Ben Dew will live immortal. I don’t think there’s an individual who works in Community Affairs who is not standing on the shoulders of your work. I guess God needed a specialist, someone who would be willing to walk through hell and reach out to people in need. As much as I am going to miss you, I can’t help but think you've gone on to a higher calling. It does not take away the sadness I feel at your absence, but it does my heart good to know that people who are larger than life are often larger than death. You are one such person, one I am proud to have called you my friend.
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Gerard Alexandre posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 14, 2012
I present my sympathy and condolences to his family. I remember him stated one day in a FEMA meeting, if anybody is prejudice FEMA is the wrong place to work for , if you are you may walk out of the meeting right now. He was one of the greatest person I ever met in my life.
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Ernie Jones posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
So many of the things written here are familiar to me: Ben’s compassion, his ability to lead, his inspirational & fun loving nature and his deep knowledge of so many things FEMA, his bigger than life character and his ability to connect with so many types of people in a very sincere and concrete way - quite a “package”. I’ve learned tons from him in the last 15+ years. I have a feeling those lessons will keep coming. Ola, Debbie and other family members please know that Ben was able to be the person he was out in the world in great measure because of the family he was a part of. Thank you.
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Thu Ha Nguyen posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
I was saddened to hear of Ben's death. Ben was such a special, wonderful and ceative person that many people will miss him. It will be difficult to come to terms with the fact that he died so suddenly. My deepest sympathy and condolences to the family. you are all in my prayer.
Ola, so sorry for your loss; I know you will miss him dearly. May the love of family and friends be a comfort for you at this difficult time.
My Sincerely respect for you and yours,
Thu Ha Nguyen and family
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Heather Foster posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
I had the great pleasure of meeting and working for Ben for two FEMA deployments. I will always remember his positive energy, kindness, and wonderful smile. I am saddened by the news of his passing. My thoughts and prayers go out to Ben's Wife, Children, Family, Friends, and his FEMA Family. May your wonderful positive Spirit you shared with us, always remain with us to share with others! R.I.P. Ben
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Janet Schwaller posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
I want to tell you will be missed. You taught me inportant things and I thank you for it. May God bless your family- you were a special person.
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Patricia Y. Simpson posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
May God bless & keep you in this your time of mourning. Losing a beloved husband, brother, father, uncle & friend is very very hard. Keep your head up to the Master & He will be with always.
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Jack Heesch posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
I heard Ben recite that poem on many occasions. And each and every time it was as if it were the first. You will be missed, Ben Dew.
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Marcus Deyerin posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
I never met Ben, and I am poorer for it. Nevertheless, I've been impacted by his presence and indomitable spirit, through the countless stories I've heard about him from those who did know him well, as well as through the privilege of working with one of his children, doubtless one of his proudest contributions to the world. His life serves as an example of what can be achieved when the beauty and joy of the world is expressed through one's dedication and service to the well-being of others.
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Joseph Murray, Oregon Emergency Management posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Dear Chalice, I thought the world of your Dad. I will miss him tremendously. State Senator Betsy Johnson (Columbia County area) invited your Dad to share his famous poem before the Oregon Legislature about four months following the December 2007 storm. She had met him doing his great work with her constituents and was so impressed, she asked him to “open” one morning of the Legislative Session the following Spring. I was among the few JFO people invited to be in the Gallery that day. I will always remember it and always remember your Dad fondly. joseph
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Paul McNeil posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
My deepest condolonces to the family, and to all who knew and loved Ben. Reading through some of the messages posted here, a very many wonderful things have been said about Ben. I think we all share the same thoughts and feelings. They are so true. Ben was real, he was really a part of our lives, and he really was someone special to each and every one of us. He will always be a part of us. God bless you, Ben; and may God lift up and bless your whole family.
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Holli Brooks posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Prayers to the Dew Family and Friends I was very sad to hear about your loss he never met a stranger and was admired and loved by so many May God comfort you during this time God Bless
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Sandi Benbrook Rieder posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
It is hard to imagine a world without Ben Dew -- the most Can-Do guy I have ever known. I will always remember Ben's pep talks that admonished us against "stinkin' thinkin" and encouraged us always to go forward with warmth in our hearts. I also remember sharing the same Meyers Briggs box with him and our joking about being siblings because our birthdays are in the same month and we were both born in '47. My deepest condolences to all of Ben's family.
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Pam Brown, Region X DAE posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Ben you were my inspiration at our initial CR Field Speialist Class in Baton Rouge. You took us to New Orleans to view the devastation of Hurricane Katrina and then to celebrate the first Marde Gras a year after the storm. You mixed the reality of loss with the fun of recovery. Thank you for all your motivation; your job is over way too soon and you will be missed.
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Daisy Miles posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Ben, You believed in me and gave me a chance when no one else would. You taught me to fight for what I believed in and to never quit. Your spirit and sense of duty to others has impacted and enriched my life for many years. You were in life, and will always be my mentor and friend. You have been taken from us too soon, but I am certain it is because the Lord has greater plans for you. We can all take comfort in knowing that you are watching over us from above. I hope we can all make you proud!
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Penelope Pappas Sells posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
"To live is to understand. To live is to have justice, reason, truth, devotion, probity,sincerity, commonsense, right, and duty nailed to the heart."..... If anything can be said of Ben, it is that he knew how to live and to make the hardest burden lighter. Undoubtedly one of the finest human beings I have ever known. As I thank God for the opportunity to have known him, I pray that the many wonderful memories we all hold will bring us peace.
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Neil Clement posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
It's with great sadness that I learned of Ben's passing. Like all of us in the emergency management world, whether you knew Ben or not, you benefited from his existence. Ben was a "force" with a presence that commanded your respect, admiration and attention. His booming personality brought laughter while, at the same time, provided love and caring to hundreds-of-thousands of disaster victims. The world is a better place because Ben passed through and I know I will miss him, but I am also confident that his impact will continue to resonate well past any of our lifetimes.
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Allen Jakobitz posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Ben, even though we have been out of touch since you went to FEMA, I do remember that you were the one at EMD that really made sure the individual was cared for. You knew every private and non-profit and government group that could provide assistance and made sure everyone got the most they could get. Many people speak well of a person after they are gone. You very always talked about very highly while you were with us. You will be missed. Enjoy your peace in heaven.
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Denise Everhart posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
They say that CR is the “face of FEMA” and Ben Dew was the “face of CR”. With the passing of Ben Dew this weekend, FEMA has lost one of its most dynamic personalities.
Ben worked for FEMA for over 20 years and served in both IA and CR and was instrumental to FEMA’s success on many disasters. Ben could calm a crowd, lend a listening ear and fire up CR staff. When you had Ben as your CR lead, you knew that no stone would be left unturned and all survivors would receive the attention they deserved. Ben helped keep FEMA staff’s spirits up and was always a positive influence in and out of the JFO.
I have had the privilege of working with Ben on numerous disasters and I feel the loss of a great man, a good friend and a hero to all.
Those of you who have worked with Ben have heard his inspirational poem (posted at the end). Ben said this poem on every disaster and he did it with an evangelical zeal. In 2007, on a disaster in Oregon, Ben was invited to read this poem to the State Legislature and received a standing ovation. When you read the poem, I hope you hear Ben’s voice ringing out saying, “You must not quit!”
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Lois Lopez posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
The prior message that says from "Dear Family" is from me.
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Roger Faris - another FEMA friend posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Like so many others I worked with Ben at disasters around the country. At each new deployment it was an enormous boost to see him and encounter his fantastically friendly greeting, complete with a huge smile and hug. His enthusiasm was legendary and wonderfully contagious. The famous motivational speeches he delivered to “all hands” at the JFO briefings were delivered with an animation and courage that can only spring from inner strength and conviction. Ben had both! He always wanted us to do more for people who needed our help and his dedication often inspired his colleagues to go beyond doing their best. Ben often invited others, including me, to join him in imagining how we could try something new and be more effective. The Ben Dew imagination and messages were always about teamwork and perseverance. In his honor, because he was right and deserves to be honored, I propose that we take those messages to heart and push for full implementation. No metrics requirements, we’ll just do it.
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Dear Family posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Like thousands of others, Ben enriched my life. His enthusiasm and Light that he carried with him constantly was contagious. We worked together at Washington, and then at FEMA. And Ben's vision was always to help disaster victims -- he lived it and breathed it. Our hearts our broken, but smile, dear Family, and know that all of us at work knew how much he loved you. Ben was always talking about each of you and showing the latest photos, and telling little stories. What a blessed and remarkable man that we all loved. Our prayers are with you.
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Amitava Michael Kundu posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Ben, you showed us all the best possible example of what a remarkably strong, compassionate, and caring man would look like. I learned more and more about who you were over the last five years as your coworker, and I'm glad to have had a chance to know you in that time. Your family was blessed to have someone like you in their lives and hearts, and I am sure you will be fondly thought of when they recall your kindness and gentle demeanor. Blessings on your long, next journey, my friend: may the love that surrounded you in life live on in the hearts of those who continue to think of you fondly.
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Juan Branche posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
In this silence, and quiet sadness, it’s hard to understand why you left this earth so soon, what it comes to mind is that you lived helping others. And that your life gave us memories too beautiful to forget.
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Geneva Coleman posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Never, never quit. It is just like Ben to enterupt my message. This message went to fast just as Ben has gone too soon but never, ever forgotten.
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John Vollmer posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
My deepest condolences to the family. May God bless you and help you heal from this terrible loss. While many knew Ben and the good work he did, millions who benefited from his tireless efforts to help them never had the opportunity to meet this gentle and caring giant of a man. Nonetheless, their lives were unknowingly enriched by his unrelenting and selfless efforts to help them in their time of need. For those of us that worked with Ben, he was a bigger than life figure bringing a smile to our faces (if not outright laughter) and always provided the motivation to go the extra mile to help those in need. Ben’s entire career was dedicated to doing God’s work - helping others. Ben, may God bless and keep you in his presence for all eternity.
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Geneva Coleman posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Ben, my brother, my master trainer, my friend. I will surely miss you for who you are and all the encouraging words you gave me and everyone you met. As the Community Relations National Cadre Manager for FEMA, I could always depend on you to teach an outstanding lesson to new DAEs and to start the party after class. I have so many fond memories of you but must of all the love you have for your kids. Benard and Chaless, I will tell you that your dad loved you to his chore and was would always talk about your accomplishments. Rest in Peace my brother and friend and I will take your advise to rest a bit, but never
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THEODORA ROWE-REGION 9 posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
To the family with love:
May the love of your angel sweetly enfold you gently uplift you, comfort and hold!
Ben was a very loving and kind person and will be missed.
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Tessie Clark posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Words cannot express the gratitude I have for a great person. Ben was a great friend, leader and mentor. I am honored to have been able to work with him during my time with FEMA. He left a great impression upon my heart and many great memories. I will never forget his character, his smile, the way he interacted with everyone he met and the many ways that he motivated everyone around him. You will be missed dearly. My prayers and heart goes out to his family. Gone but surely not forgotten.
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Ken Richardson posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
I did not know him well, but he lived life large and will be missed. My family has you in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time.
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LaSandrarita Caldwell posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
May Great Spirit follow you as you travel into the next realm; your presence in this one will be remembered with joy. I pray that your family will be blessed with only fond memories of their time spent with you and the knowledge that your spirit will always revisit. May my tears and the tears of the many that loved you, cleanse your spirit from all pain and suffering. It's a new beginning. AHO!
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Dennis Parlari posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
During a lifetime we all meet hundreds if not thousands of people, a few are truely unforgetable.
Ben was one of the few in my life.
In 1994 Ben included me into his cadre when he was with the Washington State Emergency Management Divison.
A couple of years later I was accepted into FEMA's Region 10 Community Relations cadre. A year or two later I heard Ben had also joined FEMA.
Ben, I and several other Region 10 CR staff were on deployment in Delaware when Ben received the news he had been named the new CR cadre manager for Region 10. Ben was thrilled.
I have had the privilage of knowing and working with Ben for 18 years.
To Debbie and all of Ben's family, I so sorry for our loss.
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Shnader Bellegarde posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
May Ben's soul rest in peace. I would like to let His family know that Ben's successful accomplishments will not be forgettable and will be continiuing as he always told us not to give up. His positive attitude will remain in the CR spirit. I sent my deepest sympathy to Ben's family and I am praying for God to give all Ben's family members and colleagues strenghts and courage. Ben, you will be deeply and honestly missed. Rest well!
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Cassandra Gore posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
It was a pleasure meeting and working with Ben, he was a wonderful person. In FEMA his persence will be missed.
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Stephen Parker posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Family,my sincere sympathy for your loss. He was an amazing man and my mentor with FEMA. May he rest in peace and he will be always remembered.
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Sharon Loper posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
To his family and friends, please accept my sincere sympathy for your loss. Ben was a wonderful person to work due to his outgoing personality and positive spirit.
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Aaron Espy posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
I won't forget your humor, your intensity and your talent to motivate those around you. And especially, sir, I'll always be grateful that you took a chance on this washed-up firefighter and launched me on my second career with FEMA. Godspeed, my friend!
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Joan Sterling posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Ben--I remember young Benard at 5 being left with me at Martin Way--he was teaching me how to type his name while you had a meeting. Chalice is a wonderful young lady--both are great tributes to you and your wonderful attitude in life. The snow today reminds me of a trip to Emmitsburg with several disaster reservists--we ended up in a small town in the middle of the night due to a wrong turn--but you got us to EMI eventually and safe! I participated in several BBQ's -- especially Community Friends benefits--you made the charity a good day.
I noticed someone put one of your favorite poems you could energize a room with--don't quit. Now you have a new quest. Be good!
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Loretta Holliday posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
Thank you Ben for all of your odvice and guidance during my deployment with you. May GOD continue to bless your family. Rest In Peace my dear FEMA brother.
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Orville Arbogast posted a condolence
Tuesday, March 13, 2012
My life and I am sure many other lives are much richer because of your caring and selfless giving.
You always made our time together a memorable pleasure.
I will miss your care and personal guidance.
Our cadre will miss your personal attention.
You will not be forgotten!
Many blessings for all the aide you have added to those who suffered disasters.
I wil sincerly miss your smile and kind words.
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Terry Simmonds posted a condolence
Monday, March 12, 2012
I had the honor of working and knowing Ben for over 38 years and because of our friendship my life is richer. Ben was a very special person, family was most important to Ben. Ben had a unique way of making disaster victims look at the positive and encouraging them that they will be stronger after everything is said and done. During our travels we had some great times and I have many memories of our friendship. Love you brother
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A reminder from Ben posted a condolence
Monday, March 12, 2012
Don't Quit Poem
by anonymous
When things go wrong, as they sometimes will,
When the road you're trudging seems all up hill,
When the funds are low and the debts are high,
And you want to smile, but you have to sigh,
When care is pressing you down a bit,
Rest! if you must; but don't you quit.
Life is queer with its twists and turns,
As everyone of us sometimes learns,
And many a failure turns about
When he might have won had he stuck it out;
Don't give up, though the pace seems slow;
You might succeed with another blow.
Often the goal is nearer than
It seems to a faint and faltering man,
Often the struggler has given up
When he might have captured the victor's cup.
And he learned too late, when the night slipped down,
How close he was to the golden crown.
Success is failure turned inside out;
The silver tint of the clouds of doubt;
And you never can tell how close you are,
It may be near when it seems afar;
So stick to the fight when you're hardest hit;
It's when things seem worst that you mustn't quit.
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Dianne J. Andrews posted a condolence
Monday, March 12, 2012
Debbie, my heart is broken and I have prayed and will continue to pray for you all. If you remember I worked with Ben in Fl for 8 months and in Indiana for 3 months. I helped him pick out your engagement ring and plan that fun engagement party. He loved you so much and I know your heart is broken. I know that you will be going through some hard times, but I also know that God will give you the strength that you need to get through. You have my numbers so please call me if I can be of any help; if only to listen. As you are aware we loved your husband also, he was a great person. I am confident that heaven in rejoicing with his arrival. God Bless You Debbie.
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Jim Sygitowicz posted a condolence
Monday, March 12, 2012
Ben, I want to thank you for being a part of my life. Your inspiration, your humor, your caring, your sincerity, your direction in time of need will always be remembered. You left us too soon, my friend. And I will not forget the BBQ's. Smooth sailing and the good Lord has a treat in store with your arrival.
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