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Tianna Paige Bornstein-Cook posted a condolence
Thursday, February 2, 2017
hey papa i really miss you and wish you were still with us and everyone misses you and wishes you were still with us and i hope you like it where you are just remember your family will always love you to the moon and back and more than the stars in the sky and all the way back into our hearts.
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Tianna Paige Bornstein-Cook posted a condolence
Tuesday, January 31, 2017
hey papa i really really miss you so very much and i hope you where still with us, sometimes i cry myself to sleep because i miss you very much. you are very missed i cried myself to sleep on my b-day because you went there. XOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOXOX I MISS YOU VERY MUCH.
LOVE,
TIANNA
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Chad posted a condolence
Friday, July 29, 2016
Elliott was a such a great man and I feel lucky to have known him, he was a friend to me at a time in my life when I needed one, he could see the potential in others and was an encouraging, kind soul. Although much time has passed since I’ve seen him and Val, I will never forget their kindness.
Chad
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Marah MacKay posted a condolence
Wednesday, December 31, 2014
Dear Valerie,
I’m so sorry to hear of Elliot’s passing. He was always kind to me. Always funny and always on the go! His love for his family was immeasurable.
I’m not sure if you will remember me but 1988 I worked at Mohrs , then i came to work for you taking care of the kids and then I went to work in the bailbonds office into 89 and part of 90 I think. I know i was still working there when Loma Prieta happened.
I hope you are well and I would love to catch up with you..
All my best to you and your family
Marah
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Elliot Bornstein-Cook posted a condolence
Thursday, December 18, 2014
Hey papa I really love and miss you very much I don’t really do the things we used to do together because it is just not the same without you, we all really miss you also I go for the Miami dolphins when they play.
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Valerie posted a condolence
Monday, August 18, 2014
Elliot, I can’t believe it has been six months since you went away. I love and miss you so very much, life is just not real without you. It seems like only yesterday you were here with me, I don’t know what to do. I keep hearing “it will get easier ” but I don’t believe it! There is not one minute that I don’t think of you, I can’t breathe, you’re my heart and it won’t stop breaking. I am trying so hard to be strong because I know you would want me to, but it is not that easy. I love you XOXOX thank you for loving me, you are truly a remarkable man, my gentle giant. Always & Forever we will be.
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Donna Ramsey posted a condolence
Friday, April 18, 2014
Elliot you were a shining light in our world. Your love for your wife and children was a sacred witness to how love should be:) Thanks for all the memories and they were all good:) I will miss you but know you are just waiting on the other side of the river:) ” Please God— Bless Val and the kids and all their loved ones and all who love them “:)
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Fred, Sara, Emma and Christian Grant posted a condolence
Friday, April 18, 2014
Elliott was an amazing man and has an amazing family! We love you all so much!!
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sharlene posted a condolence
Friday, April 18, 2014
such a special man who became a great encourager in the past few months. I’m thankful for him and the time I knew him. Love you, Elliot!!!
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Bernell (Tuffy) Coalwell posted a condolence
Friday, March 21, 2014
My Walk with Elliot
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A few years ago, Linda and I attended the cousins’ reunion at Perry. As that particular day wore on I decided to take a walk around the block; something I always do when I visit Perry. Valerie and Elliot were there, and Elliot agreed to join me on my walk. We had gone only a few yards when I noticed Elliot seemed to be experiencing some anxiety, which showed in his face and eyes. Nervously, he began to look around as if he wasn’t quite sure of the surroundings. Concerned, I calmly asked him if he would like to return to the reunion and his wife. A large smile formed on his mouth, and he shook his head in agreement. I asked him to take my arm, and we started back to the reunion area when suddenly from his heart, he said, “I love my wife.”
I looked at him with admiration. “Yes, I can tell.”
“And she loves me too, because she told me she did.” Elliot went on.
“Well, shoot, you’ve got the world by the tail, big guy,” I chuckled.
Elliot also laughed and nodded his head almost bashfully. As we neared the reunion area, I pointed over to where Valerie stood, Elliot’s face lit up, and we made our way to her side. Elliot immediately lost all signs of stress or anxiety. He was home again. He was safe and back with the most precious soul in his life – his wife.
I met with Elliot only a few times over the years, but each time I went away knowing he was a good man and loved his family above all things. I will never forget that short but memorable walk with that gentle man. And, you know, every year as the equinox nudges yet another winter away, I will think of Sir Elliot – may he rest in peace.
Tuffy
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Kathy burdick posted a condolence
Wednesday, March 5, 2014
My family’s heart and prayers go out to all of your family. tears will stop one day but the memories will be with you for ever. he was a great man and he will be missed by all
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Tina Whaley posted a condolence
Sunday, March 2, 2014
Dad,
I don’t even know where to start…this is so hard for me. I know you don’t want any of us to be sad, but I just can’t help it. I think about you everyday, all day. My heart hurts and I’m still waiting to wake up from this horrible nightmare. I have so many emotions going through me right now…sadness, anger, guilt, confusion and much more. I think about all the good times we had, along with all our bickering back and forth. You would get mad at me and I would get mad at you, but I always knew we loved each other and would always be there for one another. We had a very unique relationship and I loved that we could always be straight forward with each other, whether it made one of us mad or not. I know I didn’t always tell you how much I appreciated you and all you’ve done for me and my family, so I’m hoping my actions spoke louder than words. I feel like I’ve/we’ve been cheated and you were taken too soon! Now I just wish we had more time. I wish I could hear your voice just one more time…even if it’s to ask me for an ice pack, to cook you some food or just you saying “good morning”. I just miss you dad. I wish I knew what exactly happened and if you were in pain or if you’re ok. There’s all these questions and no answers. I’m trying to stay strong, but it’s not easy. I continue to have ok moments, but then break down. It makes me happy knowing that your last 4 days were spent doing what you loved most…spending time with your grandchildren…having them sleepover, watching movies, probably giving them any junk food that they wanted, comforting Linnea and getting her “prizes” after she got her stitches, watching Karley play in districts, getting to watch Dylan play some basketball too and going out to lunch with all of us on Sunday. Then to top it off, no school that Monday, so more time with the kiddos! You had a very busy, but fun weekend and I know you wouldn’t have wanted it any other way. We’re gonna miss “Belle’s Papa” at the fields, yelling “that’s my granddaughter!” Linnea loved cuddling and watching your crazy sci-fi movies with you and trying to be your “nurse” and always trying to tell you what to do. Dylan is so angry right now, but I know he will be ok. I hope you are pain free and running around everywhere, having the time of your life. Give everyone big hugs for me. I miss you and I hope you will let me know that you’re still around and watching over us. I love you Dad.
Always & Forever,
Your “Favorite” Daughter,
Tina
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Howard Surks posted a condolence
Sunday, March 2, 2014
It has been wonderful to learn, over the years, what a special life and family Elliot built. I always knew he was a remarkable man. My memories of Elliot are from when he was a teenager and the Surks and Bornstein clans would meet in North Carolina at Sophie’s trailer on the beach. Elliot would throw Frank and I into the surf. I had my first driving experience with Elliot then. I was on an errand with him, and at one point he pulled over the Ramcharger and asked how old I was. When I told him 13, he asked if I was driving yet. Following my negative response, he stated that I was old enough and told me to get behind the wheel. I was terrified, but drove us back to the trailer. When we came inside, Barbara asked if that was Howard she saw driving the Ramcharger, and Elliot responded, “of course not, Howard is too young to drive!” I will never forgot Elliot and his warm and gregarious spirit.
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Cindy Becker posted a condolence
Wednesday, February 26, 2014
Valerie and family
I am sorry for your loss. Elliott was indeed a fun person to be around. I feel blessed to have known him. Glad that his suffering is over.
Blessings to you all.
Cindy Becker
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Diana Grivette posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
You were bigger then life. You were my friend and the big brother I never. had. You always gave me the strenght to go on when things got bad. You will always be in my heart. I miss you so much.. love you
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Anna Lisa posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
I have a vivid memory of Elliot that I HAVE to believe is one that many others have-so I’d love to share it. A few years ago some of Valerie’s family was visiting from out-of-state and we all went out for a nice dinner together while they were still in town. (there were probably 15 of us) At the end of the meal I saw Elliot quietly whisper something to the waiter. I was sitting next to Valerie and said “Welp…it looks like you guys are getting the bill!” Valerie said nothing, but just looked at me and grinned. A few moments later our waiter approached our table carrying a dessert with a candle in it and began singing “HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO YOU…” Knowing this was one of Elliot’s infamous pranks, I looked around at everyone at the table thinking, “Who did he get this time?!” Then realizing……. “Oh sh*t……..it’s ME!” The whole restaurant at this point had begun singing, so as far as everyone else was concerned-it was my birthday. (although it was 2 months before). That was Elliot.
Although I met and knew Elliot after his accident, he was still incredibly funny, a true prankster, and very witty. He said things sometimes that left me without a fast enough quip to respond with. He also remains the only grown man to-date (whom I was not romantically involved with) that I would kiss on the lips. Elliot was like that. He was an extremely loving person. Kisses and hugs were a requirement when you went to visit him.
Elliot was someone who had beaten so many odds & continued to go on when most would not. I foolishly just kind of assumed he would live forever. Sadly, that could not be the case. I want to say how deeply sorry I am for the entire Bornstein family. This is a tremendous loss that I cannot fathom. & I, like everyone else, will never know another man like Elliot.
Love you all-
Anna Lisa
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David and Jeanne McBride posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Please accept our most heartfelt condolences. We were so looking forward to meeting Elliot at the wedding this summer. Shane has been such a blessing to my little girl, so he must have come from a very loving family. Our thoughts and prayers are with the entire family during this difficult time.
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Shane Bornstein posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Dad, you shaped me into the man I am today. I find myself with your crazy sense of humor that gets me into trouble sometimes, a true caring and love for those around me. I have so many memories of amazing times with you, from our first snipe hunt together, to taking me to the infamous sizzler dinner. I already dearly miss coming home to visit and cuddling up next to you to take a nap so you could wake me up with a wet willy. I think about you every second of every day and regret that work kept me away from you so much. You were by far the most loving individual I’ve ever met, not just towards me or our family but to anyone who touched you. I promise you I’ll carry on your memory and walk in your footsteps so that I can be the man you were. I just wish i could get wrapped up in your big teddy bear hug and tell you how much I love you one more time. You are 100% the reason I am the man I am today. You picked me up when I was down,and always told me how proud you were, even when I wasn’t doing anything to make you proud. You turned me from an introverted somewhat sick kid, into a very extroverted not sick man. I don’t have the words to put here that even come close to explaining what you mean to me. I love you soo much and look forward to the day that you are giving me a hard time and we can sit a laugh together. I love you dad! Love ALWAYS, Shane
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Kay Land posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
Elliot I temember first meetingv you at wrestling when all the boys were younger. Your presence was know. You big laugh after you pulled something on someone. I got it several times from you. But your heart and kindness shone through. Didnt see you for awhile but would run into Valerie and could catch up. When you found out about Robert passing your sadness was overwhelming to me. But you turned it around and showed comfort and kindness to us when we needed it. So many times your words of comfort were what I nneeded. So today my heart breaks for Valerie and your family. She said to you what I said to Robert. Watch through her eyes and heart. You will see it all. I will truly miss you my friend. Kay
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Amanda posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
I’m so sorry for your loss. Elliot is a great man. He always took care of everyone and I know he’s still going to be watching out for all of you, taking care of you until you’re together again.
I’ll never forget being a child and seeing Uncle Elliot walking over to pick me up. As soon as he was in my line of sight I’d drop whatever I was doing and go running to him as fast as could and just jump in to his arms with my little arms wrapped around his neck squeezing as tight as I could. I never had to think twice about it, he’d never let you fall. He gave the best bear hugs ever and you always knew everything would be ok. <3
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Valerie Bornstein posted a condolence
Tuesday, February 25, 2014
I can not put into words how lost I am without you .I just want you to hold me one more time and tell me everything is going to be okay! My love, my best friend, my strength, my everything…. I miss your smile, your laugh, the look in your eyes when your looked at me. I miss seeing you shine with so much love & pride for our children and grand children. Don’t worry, I will take care of them for you. I have you wrapped in my heart always & forever, so look through my eyes , see all that I see, we will always be together. Don’t forget to meet me in my dreams
I Love You
Your Gal, Val
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